Not a whimper, not a scream, but a moan. Apparently a lot of guys do! So, if you are one of those guys, let me tell you exactly why women moan in bed.
Moan: a long, low sound made by a person expressing physical or mental suffering or sexual pleasure.
I know you all like to know the reason why a woman moan while having sex. But the loudness of the moan will depend on woman to woman. Some like silent sex and some like loud sex. But there are few reasons which make a woman to moan during sex.
Let’s start discussing the reasons:
It feels good:
Moaning is a natural sound that women make when they feel really good. If you make a woman feel that good in bed, then she may not be able to help herself and a moan may come out.
She has seen in movies:
In a porno, women moan loud and long. So, when women watch a porno – that guys tend to really like – they think that guys want to hear them moan like that too. In fact, they think that if they don’t moan, their men won’t think they are as turned on as the women in the porno.
Bottom line: She could be moaning loudly because it’s what she thinks you want to hear.
She is pretending to have an orgasm:
Women also moan during orgasm – but usually only when they are pretending to have one. It is a way to ‘put on a show’ and make the orgasm believable. But a moan is usually reserved for something that feels nice, not intense. An orgasm is intense. In other words, moaning is pretty standard for faking an orgasm.
She wants to encourage you to keep going:
Some aspects of foreplay can be pretty boring, and women know that a moan here or there will help you feel like you are doing something right and boost your confidence a bit. It’s an easy way to convey that you are doing a great job and you should keep putting in the effort.
She is trying to express you are at the right point:
You can tell by her body movements and sounds that she is enjoying sex, and she knows this. So, when she wants you to know that she is enjoying what you are doing, she will moan. In fact, if she wants you to keep doing what you are doing, she will moan.
Moaning can be a sign that you are doing something right.
Once you get a feel for how she acts in bed, you will be able to tell if she always moans in bed or only on occasions where she is in a rush or not feeling good (that’s a good hint that she’s trying to move things along). If you feel that her moan is fake, don’t call her on it. She is most likely trying to make you feel good in bed, and if you call her on it, she will feel like her efforts have failed. You don’t want to make her feel bad; you just want her to be real.
Therefore, tell her how much you love the fact that she can be real with you in the bedroom. The more you assure her that being real is all you want, the more real she will be real.